6-Day Tantric Intimacy Retreat for Couples in Chiang Mai, Thailand

Join Luna Agneya and Triss Tashi for a 6-day Tantric Intimacy Retreat for Couples at a private riverfront villa just outside Chiang Mai, Thailand. This retreat is designed for couples ready to deepen their intimacy, presence, and passion together through the path of Tantra and conscious relating.

A 5-day Immersion into Tantric Intimacy & Liberated Love
For couples on the path of Devotion, Awakening and Ecstasy

Are you and your partner ready to dive deep into the powerful relational practices of sacred intimacy?

Where your relationship becomes a container for your spiritual awakening and liberation?

Luna and Tristen are here to support you to explore the profound gifts that Tantra and Sacred Sexuality has to offer your relationship.

Over 5 powerful days you’ll re-ignite passion, explore new depths of intimacy, experience expertly guided rituals and leave with tools that can serve you a lifetime.

THE PATH OF THE TANTRIC CONSORT
In the Tantric tradition, there was a recognition that through a partnership with a fellow spiritual seeker, we could evolve and awaken on profound new levels. They developed tools for harnessing the intimacy cultivated between a couple to explore topics like desire, devotion, surrender and bliss. Some of our teachers call this ‘The Yoga of Intimacy’ which beautifully encompasses the idea that your intimate life becomes your ‘yoga’ – your spiritual practice.

You’ve probably heard of the promise of tantric lovemaking – ecstatic bliss, extended full body and energy orgasms, psychedelic altered states, profound union…. All of this and more is possible when you have the right tools and perspectives.

We explore what is it to be truly intimate with another — to know your partner, and yourself beyond the masks and roles you wear each day.

We learn to be present with all that a relationship gifts us, and awaken to the aliveness pulsating between two people, moment by moment.

We learn to see contracted states and tensions not as problems but as gateways to deeper understanding, integration and evolution.

You just need the right tools, transmission and perspectives. We’re here to give you that.

SOMATIC TANTRA & AUTHENTIC RELATING
This retreat integrates somatic and trauma-informed practices to be a nourishing, integrative yet transformational journey. The approach brings together timeless wisdom of the Tantric tradition with modern perspectives on nervous systems, attachment, trauma and embodiment.

Learn more about Somatic Tantra here

Our Tantric perspectives are based on a mix of NonDual Shaiva Tantra, Shakta Tantra and Buddhist Tantra (which has the most sexuality practices!) mixed with some general erotic mysticism and Sacred Sexuality.

Luna’s book ‘The Liberated Sensualist – The Modern Tantrika’s Guide to Embodied Awakening’ goes much deeper into what Tantra and Sacred Sexuality are, her lineage and approaches to the fusion of somatics and Tantra. It’s a great way to get a feel for her work if you don’t know her already.

Luna and Tristen also weave in Authentic Relating, a powerful, world-renouned practice that brings awakened perspectives to communication that helps couples to transform how they share their inner world

Learn from a real married couple with years of devoted practice & professional training
Luna and Tristen have been together for over 6 years now (married for over 2 years), and both were on this path with other partners before they met. They are deeply committed to this work, living and breathing it – letting their love be transformed by it year by year. They both also have professional training in Sacred Sexuality, facilitation, coaching, Authentic Relating, Breathwork and more.

Some teachers lean on personal experience alone, missing the nuances and wider view that comes with professional training. Some lean on training alone, yet do not fully embody and live this work. With Luna and Tristen, you’re in great hands, with a couple who are both professional and deeply experienced through their own practice. You get their embodied transmission of secure, profound, soul-mate level love and their expert facilitation to support you journey.

They have been teaching couples work together for most of their relationship, and Luna was trained as a VITA Sex, Love and Relationship coach since 2019.

This is not your typical couples’ getaway…
The Tantric Intimacy Retreat is for couples who want a deeper intimacy with each other. It blends therepeutic work and sacred intimacy work, so there is space to both process challenges in your relationship and learn skills for communication, attunement and sensitivity, as well as space to explore the limitless potential of your love through sensuality, play and eros.

This retreat is for couples ready to go DEEP.

But this depth doesn’t require excessive catharsis or pushing, we take an approach that prioritizes nourishment and embodiment rather than pushing, where we learn to live and breathe this work so that it can integrate into daily life and invite you both to love more intentionally and devotionally.

The Journey

Here is an overview of the themes for each day, taking you on a transformational journey of rebirth and liberation

Day 1 : Arrival
Wednesday December 9
INTENTIONAL RELATING

You arrive, you settle, orientation, and in the evening a delicious intention-setting ritual to drop you both into the container.
As you arrive you will connect to the sacred space we will be gathered in, start to get to know your fellow travellers and be welcomed with a ritual to set your ‘Sankalpa’ (intention) for the time together.

Day 2
Thursday December 10
RELATING FROM PRESENCE

The foundation of profound sacred love starts with depth of presence.
This day is the art of seeing and being seen, paired with deeper communication and couples meditation practices — bringing you both fully into the same room, heart, body and soul.
A lot of couples struggle to feel fully seen in their relationship — between the stresses of daily life and the numbing of screens and distraction, one or both of you can end up feeling half there, even when you’re sharing the same space.
We redefine that connection and bring you back into the truth of each other, moment by moment.

Day 3
Friday December 11
LOVE THAT HEALS

Next we journey into love, trust and vulnerability…
We go deeper into love, trust and vulnerability — heart-awakening couples breathwork, healing through intimacy, devotion and worship.
We explore: How can our relationships become a space of deep healing, nourishment and transformation? How we can hold deeper and more profound space in our relationships for transformation, healing and loving more fully?
Together we breathe love into old wounds of separation and fear, discovering the art of being present and holding space for one another without the need to fix or change your partner.
True space-holding means seeing each other’s multifaceted truth, moment by moment — beyond the projections and old stories that get in the way.

OUTING: We will go out for the afternoon to a hotspring and do a water-therapy style experience to support and hold your partner as they surrender.

Day 4
Saturday December 12
SHADOW, POWER AND POLARITY

Here, we dive into the shadow to alchemise
This day explores relational shadow work, power dynamics and polarity. Every relationship has it’s shadows, power struggles and tensions, here we explore how to navigate them mindfully, playfully and effectively.
This is where transformation can happen in profound ways, and it can also be fun and a little kinky.
Here polarity is not about ‘man=masculine, female=feminine’ – that is old-paradigm and limiting your evolution. We explore our relationship to trust and surrender, power and submission, leading and following, control and flow. We challenge old patterns and open to more fluidity so we can create more variety and wholeness.

Day 5
Sunday December 13
PASSIONATE LOVERS

“Your sensuality is the gateway to your divinity”
We explore sacred sexuality, the yoga of desire, devotional intimacy and erotic energy play — the art of sexual yoga, harnessing erotic lifeforce energy and surrendering into the aliveness found between two bodies uniting.
Passion doesn’t have to die out beyond the honeymoon phase — it’s an energy you can learn to wield wisely, together, for years to come. Here you’ll learn powerful practices for making love beyond the physical, bringing devotional touch to your intimacy practice and accessing entrancing, hypnotic states together.
Learn how to kindle the spark no matter how many years go by, and to bring yogic awareness and skill to your lovemaking. No nudity required.

Day 6
Monday December 14
Integration

Integration, and a beautiful re-commitment ritual to bring together everything we’ve journeyed through.
We come back into gratitude and celebration of what’s been built — closing the space together with love and potency.
The final day has a morning session before you check out at 11am and head off into the world.